Autism Soccer: Puberty and Autism: Be Ready

Your child is not a baby anymore, things have changed now. Don't let this come as a surprise.

Going through phases is a part of living. From the moment of birth, there are various challenges children have to face in the process of growing. Naturally, the early years are essential for the development of cognitive and social skills, in order to be prepared. Puberty is the part where teens experience changes in their bodies and mind. The days of just playing around are long gone and now questions related to identity, self-awareness and sexual needs start to arise. In the common cases, puberty is a challenge for parents and it requires time and understanding, whereas special needs children can make this process quite difficult.

In general, the physical changes occur to both boys and girls; the growth and changes in the sexual organs, softening or lowering of pitch, and the sudden increase of acne. Autism children can be seriously affected due to the fact they hate when things change. There are two things that will be affecting them the most, the environment, and their sexual feelings.

Social environment

While personal questions invade autistic teenager minds, they also have to face the fact that people will probably judge them as teenagers usually do. Bullying has a negative influence on teens dealing with this process, making it harder to get through the day.

Have a moment to talk to your child about what’s going on, explain the fact that puberty changes everyone and is not a bad thing or a reason to be bullied. Self-stem for autistic teens can be risen up by always telling them positive things and compliments.

Sexuality

During this period, it’s very normal that teens start having sexual tendencies and urges. Autism teens will also develop these, but might not feel comfortable about it since they cannot explain what’s going on.

The best thing you can do as a parent is to discuss this subject with your children, give them information and guidance about the meaning of those sensations, even if it’s uncomfortable. Autistic teens are able to understand these topics and they’ll be aware of how to react according to the moment.

Being a teenager is the most difficult challenge children can have, not only because of the changes it brings but for the way children start perceiving things. Be prepared for those changes and always look up for them. Don’t forget there are places you can go if you need help and guidance; among these are the people of Autism Soccer and their group of professionals. They are a great alternative to your children, contact with them.