Friday, April 7, 2017

Love Is Commitment: Parenting Done Right

Sometimes you might feel like giving up, but remember the love you have for them. Do it for their future.

The road of being a good parent is challenging as it can be, but imagine just how hard it would be for children to grow and face life without a mother and father beside them to support their growth. If you chose to follow this path, you must be aware that it’s not going to be easy, but it will be worth the try.

For a start, children’s growth is a very delicate thing; every word and expression they hear and actions they see will have its consequences in their future. Also, there’s no such thing as the perfect guide for parenting or a manual of instructions on becoming the best dad or mom. The process of becoming a parent is only made by making mistakes and doing your best to understand what your children are trying to tell you. When it’s about children who are born with Autism Spectrum Disorder, there’s more to be done and the attention must be constant.

It’s not that special needs children are demanding or need to be spoiled; it’s a matter of finding the communication channel that will open your children’s way of expressing. Perhaps this could be the hardest step and the one that will cut off most of your time,  you have to be patient and look for all the alternatives possible. Then again, this is not about sacrifice or waiting for your children to thank all your efforts. You’re taking this step and facing the challenge because you love them, they mean everything to you and you won’t give up; you know they need you.

There’s no greater joy in parenthood than being able to see your children grow and make all his desires come true. This is the commitment parents must have with their children; making sure they do what they love, knowing that there’s nothing in the world that can stop them, not even a development condition like Autism. With the help of initiatives of organizations like Autism Soccer, the world has the path opened up for children with autism spectrum disorder. The only thing you have to do is contact with them and you’ll notice the change in your children’s behavior.
There's no need for a "thank you" coming for them, there won't be more joy than seeing them grow ready for the world out there.



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